How do I stay safe on a first date with someone from a dating app?
Check who the person is before you meet, choose a busy public place, get there and home on your own, and tell a friend where you are. If anything changes at the last minute, such as a new place or a pickup, say no.
Most dates are fine, but some fake profiles exist to rob or set up the person they meet. The last-minute change of plan is the most common warning sign.
A short video call before the date is a quick way to confirm the person matches the photos.
Before and during the date
- Do a short video call before you meet.
- Meet in a busy, public place you know.
- Arrange your own transport there and back.
- Tell a friend where you are and when you will check in.
- Do not leave your drink or phone unattended.
Frequently asked questions
- They want to pick me up from home. Is that a problem?
- For a first date, keep your home address to yourself. Meet them at the place instead.
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