How do I meet someone from a dating app safely for the first time?
Meet in a busy public place in daylight, get there and back on your own, and tell a friend where you are and who you are meeting. Check the person's photos and number before the date, so you know they are who they say they are.
Most first dates go fine. But scammers and people with bad intentions also use dating apps, and a few simple habits protect you without spoiling the evening.
Before and during the date
- Do a short video call before you meet.
- Choose a café, a mall or a restaurant with people around.
- Arrange your own transport there and back.
- Send a friend the person's name, photo and number, and where you will be.
- Keep your drink with you and leave if something feels wrong.
Frequently asked questions
- They want to pick me up from home. Is that okay?
- For a first meeting it is safer to keep your home address to yourself and meet somewhere public.
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